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Hot Tips for using Printable Reward ChartsThere are two reward charts featured on this page.
The nice thing with printable reward charts or any other type of behavior chart, you take yourself out of the position of nagging at your child all the time. The child becomes answerable to the reward chart; you are simply his cheerleader and friendly reminder. If you have a little one who quickly tires of using reward charts, try what I did with my daughter. She stayed in the game a lot longer (and we eventually conquered thumbsucking) by inviting her doll into the action. By helping her doll stop sucking her thumb, my daughter was motivated to 'lead the way' by changing her own behavior. So consider printing out double reward charts, one for your child and another for a beloved toy or even a pet.
I like to add a task to my kids' reward charts that they are currently doing very well. That way they have a winner right up front on their chart and they find that motivating. Too often as parents, we only resort to tools like printable reward charts when we see our kids having a problem with something. This way is a bit more positive, I have found. Do remember to reward for positive character development as well as traditional chores. It's a great thing to help a child develop a habit of making their own bed, for example, but it's far more important that they learn how to be intentionally kind. These reward charts can be used to reward any type of behavior. If you need more ideas about this, see my article Teaching Children to Tell the Truth.
Printable reward charts are a part of a process.
Raising kids is not an event, it's a process. Tools like printable reward charts and printable charts for kids can help a lot, but they can't do the job for you. So be patient with yourself and your child. Use these reward charts and any other parenting resources you feel might help you. Be flexible; make changes until you see results, keep what works, toss what doesn't. Make sure you are modeling good behavior for your child because it's nearly impossible to train your child to do something they see you not doing. And always keep going! Parenting is a tough job, but it can also be extremely rewarding. Hang in there for the long haul. It's worth it! Feedback from our visitors: "i love the free charts that you have here. they are so simple yet much more effective. thank you so much." Shelly "This is a wonderful site! I will be sharing your web address with every Mom I know!" Lisa Colleen Langenfeld is a mother with over 25 years of parenting experience and helps other busy moms at http://www.paintedgold.com.
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